Dates: the Good, the Bad and the Ugly.

Dingbat · #11 (**permalink**) 10-03-2009, 13:31

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Originally Posted by peachy

So a man of religion who was advertising for sex, on a website dedicated to casual sex meetups, and you answered his advert?

the only boy that could ever reach me, was the son of a preacher man ....

Sada · #12 (**permalink**) 11-03-2009, 09:25

Once upon a time,
there was this old rotten orange jeep, which my friend Izaak drove, pulling up next to me.
Next to him sat, quietly staring in front of him, that intriguing stranger ... he was right there, one touch away, wouldn’t turn his head, nor say hi ... so I gave a kick to that car to shake him up a bit ...

....

my dear friend Izaak told me the next day, that stranger laughed his off after your little attack there and he wanted to know all about you

which greatly inspired me to go for some more "attacks" ... each one different of course

Just the way it goes. I simply have highly amusing encounters ...

Canadian_dude · #13 (**permalink**) 26-11-2009, 17:04

Never had a truly bad date, I have an eye for hysterics, prudes, bores and crazies.

BigD · #14 (**permalink**) 26-11-2009, 17:07

What about gold-diggers ? I am well tuned-in to those....

BigD

Canadian_dude · #15 (**permalink**) 26-11-2009, 17:39

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Originally Posted by BigD

What about gold-diggers ? I am well tuned-in to those....

BigD

All women "dig" something. Be it your looks, status, money or smarts. For some reason sleeping with somebody for money is considered more shamefull then sleeping for looks and a gym toned body.

ALL sex and relationships are in some ways an exchange.

peachy · #16 (**permalink**) 26-11-2009, 20:47

Too true CD, i have often worried women only sleep with me for my looks, brains, money and gym toned body.

Canadian_dude · #17 (**permalink**) 26-11-2009, 21:08

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Originally Posted by peachy

Too true CD, i have often worried women only sleep with me for my looks, brains, money and gym toned body.

You know, narcolepsy is highly treatable.

Mikey · #18 (**permalink**) 26-11-2009, 22:07

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Originally Posted by Canadian_dude

You know, narcolepsy is highly treatable.

Was that narcolepsy or narcissism?

BigD · #19 (**permalink**) 27-11-2009, 07:27

I agree that liaisons can develop from any of those things. Their depth and lasting satisfaction for both sides will be limited as soon as one side wants more - through greed, more/less/any/different sex, better lifestyle, jealousy, emotional fulfillment or simply security.

A sexual relationship that is openly performed for money, it is at least clear what the rules are. There are people that will embark only on a relationship with a guy that has the right car, income, holidays which they expect to share (as if by right). It is prostitution by another name.

It may seem that sharing your life(style) when in a close relationship with a person is completely normal. And it is. But when a person (with an income) expects you to pay for his/her foreign trips, asks for presents, insists that X or Y is not good enough then the alarm bells should start ringing.

If she has a dog that has to be carried, that is another warning sign

BigD

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Originally Posted by Canadian_dude

All women "dig" something. Be it your looks, status, money or smarts. For some reason sleeping with somebody for money is considered more shamefull then sleeping for looks and a gym toned body.

ALL sex and relationships are in some ways an exchange.

brussels_or_death · #20 (**permalink**) 27-11-2009, 09:12

I met a lady off the worldwideweb here in brussels on a expats site, her english was great on msn, seemed like a nice girl etc etc...

Met her for a drink, did she speak a word of english? Of course not.
So it was obviously someone else typing for her.

I had my mineral water, spent about 9 awkward minutes asking basic questions, getting 1 word answers then made my journey outta there.

Waste of 9 minutes of my life that I'll never get back.

I give up t'internet dating, I'll continue my quest for gash elsewhere