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Old 27-11-2009, 07:27
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Default Re: Dates: the Good, the Bad and the Ugly.

I agree that liaisons can develop from any of those things. Their depth and lasting satisfaction for both sides will be limited as soon as one side wants more - through greed, more/less/any/different sex, better lifestyle, jealousy, emotional fulfillment or simply security.

A sexual relationship that is openly performed for money, it is at least clear what the rules are. There are people that will embark only on a relationship with a guy that has the right car, income, holidays which they expect to share (as if by right). It is prostitution by another name.

It may seem that sharing your life(style) when in a close relationship with a person is completely normal. And it is. But when a person (with an income) expects you to pay for his/her foreign trips, asks for presents, insists that X or Y is not good enough then the alarm bells should start ringing.

If she has a dog that has to be carried, that is another warning sign

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Originally Posted by Canadian_dude View Post
All women "dig" something. Be it your looks, status, money or smarts. For some reason sleeping with somebody for money is considered more shamefull then sleeping for looks and a gym toned body.

ALL sex and relationships are in some ways an exchange.
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