Originally Posted by peachy

I don't think it's true that we can't afford to lose all we have built up, or at least I don't feel that way. It's quite easy to assess what it really means to leave somebody and ultimately you know that it wouldn't be the end of the world, life goes on.

Originally Posted by peachy

You do have to make your bed and lie in it though, maybe you are the sort of person that can deal with multiple relationships on the go at the same time all through your life but the majority of other people aren't like that and it will cause problems for you.

The grass is always a cup size bigger on the other side and you just have to work out your game plan. If you choose to live in deceit, and get away with it, it is you that knows about the infidelity and you that has to face the demons, it's yourself that you are making life difficult for. If you don't want to go this route then you need to be realistic and focus on building a strong relationship.