my turn
( I already know you will find this completely ridiculous but I do believe in this)

I think, as we are such incomplete beings, with so many imperfections, such a lack of understanding how a man or a woman functions (even though volumes have been written on this) we can just never get to what dreams are made of in regards to relationships. Maybe we can hang on to it for a while .. .if we are lucky enough.

Cheating is just one of those things which make us feel guilty, like so many other things we do make us feel guilty.

As I don't usually do too much of a thing which makes me feel bad, I hate to feel bad, I simply try to avoid inflicting pain on myself, especially emotional pain, I just so hate it, it is worse than any physical pain.

I saw too many relationship breakups not only within my own family but all around me. I truly do wonder if we still know what it means to care about someone other than me I and myself. We have become a very selfish society and the lack of contentment is just so huge anything will be good enough to fill the emptiness and that just includes cheating on our partners.

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